I’m going to break this down in a few stages for you.
My dear dad once told me, “If you can work at a job that you love, you are going to be beating out 99% of the population.” That really resonated with me, and so I’ve made a point of loving what I do. With that said, there are some key rules of thumb to follow so that you can love what you do and be successful at it.
1- “Comparisons”- This causes people to feel crappy about themselves and to not go for things because they are feeling less than when they focus on what other people have. I found that to be one of the most damaging and toxic things you can do.
2- “If only I had” – Trying to fill yourself with stuff doesn’t work. It’s a short-lived happiness that won’t last.
3- “Feeling not in control of your destiny” – If you don’t take hold of what you want and make it your own you can feel lost.
I can honestly say that I’m happy most of the time, but it’s taken a lot of work to get there. When I stopped being so hard on myself things began to fall into place. Of course, there are hard times, but I follow the above rules, so I don’t stay down for long.
Positive Influences To Take Charge Of Your Career:
1- If you get that icky feeling of negativity you have to move away from it. Don’t look for reassurances from others to do so.
2- Ask for feedback to learn and grow.
3- Put your Richard Branson hat on and channel this quote of his, “screw it, let’s do it.”
4- Take an educated jump and then have blind faith.
Techniques For Doubling Your Business:
1- Write down what makes you happy in your business and then quadruple on it with a white-hot obsession for 3 months solid. Trim down your day with the stuff you don’t like and fill it with what you do. If there is more than 1 aspect you really like, then take one at a time and do them each for 3 months. When you like what you are doing it’s going to stop feeling like work and your business will thrive.
2- If you’re not getting the results you want where you are at now and you feel trapped you can always move. Once you take charge of what you love to do and you feel that you have now wrapped your arms around your career, it means you are now in control of your destiny… Then, contentment set in, since we aren’t just at the mercy of random acts anymore.
3- If you do all this and it doesn’t work, find another job that you love.
Avoid those career killers, focus on positive influences and the above techniques to take charge of your career. You will find contentment, which will in turn double your business.
Thanks for watching and being part of the rebellion.